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James the Hun's avatar

Fantastic commentary on digital nomads -- you're bang on with essentially every point. I was one myself for a good five years before settling down in Hungary after finding a lovely woman.

The sense of adventure, intellect, and propensity for risk-taking is something I've found in all digital nomads, though after a while, one has a sense that the hedonism of it all is a little *too much*. Some of the greatest people I've met and some of the worst embraced the lifestyle completely, though my experience is that most eventually gravitate to one particular locale, or, as you say, return home.

Given that my home -- New Zealand -- is a bit of an odd and unfavourable place these days -- especially for someone looking to find a good woman and have a few sprogs -- I landed in Eastern Europe like so many. Belgrade sounds wonderful, a lot like Hungary, really. People don't have much but they make do. Every culture has its quirks, not to mention its ups and downs. Adapting is hard, but it can be done. I'm sure some reading this may have done it.

It's interesting seeing the other side of digital nomads -- to look upon what they become when the lifestyle loses its lustre; most come out the other side as well-rounded, worldly human beings, but some can never quite let go of the golden years. I'm not sure I can: there's an undeniable thrill to making money on your laptop then strolling out of your bungalow for an early evening ocean swim in Thailand, for example.

Some can never let go of these moments, thus they are destined to try in vain to repeat them, lost in a false reality where they never truly grow up or move on. It's rare, but I've seen some guys become shells of themselves this way.

Nothing anchors you and gives you purpose like a family, at least as a (somewhat) virtuous man.

I hope you get the chance to start a family, too, one day, bro -- reckon you'd have a lot to pass on.

Now you've just gotta find a woman who's worth the time.

*Good luck*! (taken voice (: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1zNdw4DaUM8)

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Rikard's avatar

What a great treat! Thank you for that - lots of questions and lots of answers. Just like the best kind of smörgåsbord and knytkalas*.

Beer-question made me laugh. I'll try any beer, lager, porter, small-beer, bitter, pilz and such once. And most only once. Make mine dark, heavy, and pilz-like and I'll camp out next to the tap for the evening. IPA is like intercourse in a canoe. And "light beer" is a flogging offence.

(Oh for the days of youth, when downing a crate (24 cans/12 Liters) during an afternoon and evening was no big deal!)

The Platonic to Aristotelian shift is a good way of putting it, not just because it may herald a move to realism, pragmatism and practicalism but also to ethics again becoming a real deal. 'Nicomachean Ethics' is looking at me from the book-shelf as I type. Fitting that you mention Plato and Aristotle, since to the Greeks Mars the planet was Pyroeis:

"The Fiery" - a single glowing ember can be rekindled into a fire rivalling Muspelheim itself.

If every people in Europe re-discovers the classics and lace them together with their own ur-history once more... oh, tremble would the grubbers and grifters when met with opponents who, in the face of an enemy using abstraction and greed as his only tools, respond with the iron hand of will made flesh.

As a Swedish Viking is claimed to have told a French priest once, after receiving baptism and being told it was customary to pay a gift to the church for this: "I give you your life. Would you prefer a different gift, just say so"

That kind of lakonic humour hides a very specific, very direct yet sly and keen mind.

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